Mondage met up at my place at 1pm yesterday. He left for home a little after 4am, 15 hours later. During those hours we played. Alot. Several different positions, and I suppose you can call it several different sessions.. In a way. There were food breaks, ofcourse, and we talked alot as well.. But it was still a very intensive day of playing, and I got really tired. Ofcourse, it was definitly worth it! :)
So what did we do? I'll have to do this chronologically, and see how much I remember..
1. Had him undress, then tied his legs so they were spread. Checked if he'd done his homework, which was to learn some anatomical terms, and be able to point them out on his body (simple stuff like "testes", "glans", "perineum" etc). This didn't turn him on, but I think it's important that he knows his own body well, so I didn't care.
2. Tied him in the fetal position and left him on a matrass for about 20 minutes. Covered him with a blanket so he wouldn't get cold. Used the ball gag trainer (like a "harness" for the head), the posture colar and alot of leather cuffs and chains.
3. Moved his arms around a bit, so he'd get better bood circulation, and started teasing him and playing with him while in a fetal-like position. Most of the time, he was sitting upright, meaning he had little or no balance and was depending on me for support. An excercise in trust. Re-tied him so he was lying flatter on his back when his butt started to fall asleep. Removed the gag. Kept up the teasing and petting and scratching and breath controll. We're baby-stepping towards a a regular sub/Dom-relationship, and I have the impression he's enjoying it. Told him he shouldn't come unless he'd asked (and recieved) my permishion, but revoked that ban after a while. So he came, though in the end he needed a hand free to be able to do it. Right after he came, I ordered him to taste his own cum. Which he did. I might pick up on that whole orgasm denial thing later on, because I find it alot of fun. It's yet another way of controlling him, "owning" him.
4. Dinner break.
5. Mumification. Roled him into a sheet, then tied him up with ropes from shoulders to ancles. Then roled him up in the thin matrass he was lying on. Left him there for about 20 minutes or so.
6. Released his hands and arms from the body-tie, and secured them over his head instead. Gaged him. Tortured him with tickling. The goal of this session was to get him down, mentally, to a place he probably hadn't been before. Into "sub-mode" in a way. And I did it! With a combination of heavy tickling and relaxation periods when I told him how good he was and how proud I was of him for being able to do it. I think the talking did more than the torture, but the torture was needed to get him mentally off balace for a short while so that the talking could do it's job.
After the first bout of tickling (which seriously wasn't much worse than tickling I've done on him before!) he started tearing up, by the second one he was sniffling and even after that he was able to take a third round. I know it was really hard on him, I could see him struggling, but he accepted it and he endured. As I'm sitting here, writing this, I'm again reminded of how proud I am of him for that! He absolutly hates being tickled, and yet he was able to accept it because I wanted him to. Not once, but three times! That's a gift I never thought anyone would give me, and as I'm writing this I can feel a lump in my throat because I'm so pleased with him. With us. We've come a long way since we first started playing, and I'm really looking forward to future sessions with him. I doubt I'll do anything like this to him in a long time, it's too taxing on both of us, but I think it was important to do it.
Afterwards, I untied him completely and we sat talking for a long time. He'd been down deep, emotionally, and it took some work to get him back up. I think I handled that part of it pretty well, too. I've been there, I've felt that same emotional emptyness, and I think having played the sub-role myself, I know better than many Doms what's needed.
7. We took a break, made panecakes and relaxed. It was past 1am before we finished.
8. Gaged him and tied him in a rather tight hogtie. Left him under a blanket, while I sat waching TV. He almost fell asleep in that position! I was feeling tired too, so I knew this part couldn't last long. Loosened his bonds a bit, to make his hands less cold and purple (a sign of poor blood flow, in case you were wondering), and started playing with him. The regular stuff, breath controll, scratching, nibbling etc. Concidered refusing him the right to come, but decided against it after a couple of minutes. We were both too tired for those kinds of games. So he was lying on his belly, in a hogtie, and while I was biting his ears and neck, and doing breath controll, he came again. Untied him, talked for a bit, let him clean up.
And then we talked some more, and some time after 4am he left. That was truly a long day! :D