tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.comments2021-09-07T12:16:56.237+02:00Sexual RamblingsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger49125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-49620817689374094152021-09-07T12:16:56.237+02:002021-09-07T12:16:56.237+02:00Seems I can't post that long comments. Will ha...Seems I can't post that long comments. Will have to edit the post in stead.Sexybluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14568976240641331989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-72102803477218257642021-09-07T11:58:36.687+02:002021-09-07T11:58:36.687+02:00I'll post it in a comment here.I'll post it in a comment here.Sexybluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14568976240641331989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-48984067079070358402018-06-03T06:29:29.888+02:002018-06-03T06:29:29.888+02:00I disagree with Ferrett on that one - One of the p...I disagree with Ferrett on that one - One of the principles in more than two i like is one of compassion. You don't have to be callous, but you also don't have to be "walked over". Assert your "right" to date and play with others, but do so being aware of his likely reaction, and do it in as nice a way as possible, without suborning your needs to his. And if that doesnt work, remember, people are more important than the relationship, so, perhaps the relationship has run its course Triggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07893418630915191103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-45438338971273849002018-01-21T13:17:35.636+01:002018-01-21T13:17:35.636+01:00I'm sorry to hear that you get so little accep...I'm sorry to hear that you get so little acceptance for your life choices. Parents are supposed to support their children, not be just critical to something they (obviously) know so little about. :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-69348006621123909772017-04-24T10:50:51.149+02:002017-04-24T10:50:51.149+02:00Thank you for your suggestion. I've added this...Thank you for your suggestion. I've added this option now (there should be a link in the menu to the right, below the other subscription options). Let me know if it doesn't work. :)Sexybluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14568976240641331989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-6032630493875093462017-04-23T18:14:51.033+02:002017-04-23T18:14:51.033+02:00Hi. Could you add so it's possible to subsribe...Hi. Could you add so it's possible to subsribe to your blog via e-mail?<br />Hälsningar, Tony.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06312005602516782908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-60704037554206362392017-04-12T06:02:42.386+02:002017-04-12T06:02:42.386+02:00Thank you! *can't stop grinning like a silly f...Thank you! *can't stop grinning like a silly fangirl* :PSexybluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14568976240641331989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-55656977298835033962017-04-08T15:50:16.747+02:002017-04-08T15:50:16.747+02:00You're very welcome here. Glad you enjoy it. I...You're very welcome here. Glad you enjoy it. It's fun to have another Scandinavian reader. :)Sexybluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14568976240641331989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-18253650822356733822017-04-08T15:49:28.775+02:002017-04-08T15:49:28.775+02:00This comment has been removed by the author.Sexybluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14568976240641331989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-40846431231179395732017-04-08T15:48:23.246+02:002017-04-08T15:48:23.246+02:00Thank you for asking. I see him occasionally (abou...Thank you for asking. I see him occasionally (about twice per year, maybe), but we don't speak much. He got better from his depression, got a new girlfriend and last I heard they'd moved in together. I don't know if they're doing kinky stuff to each other, but I hope they are. I wish him the best.Sexybluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14568976240641331989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-57693068224496749752017-04-08T15:23:55.906+02:002017-04-08T15:23:55.906+02:00Do you know what happend to Corvus?Do you know what happend to Corvus?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06312005602516782908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-25950140925094187712017-04-08T15:15:50.075+02:002017-04-08T15:15:50.075+02:00Ah. Yes. It was through Ferns I found this great b...Ah. Yes. It was through Ferns I found this great blog! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06312005602516782908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-42949314399439001492017-04-08T10:55:02.265+02:002017-04-08T10:55:02.265+02:00Hmm... "Dishevelled Domina"-bloggen är b...Hmm... "Dishevelled Domina"-bloggen är borta. Har du sparat intervjun någon annanstans?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06312005602516782908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-28697661277759159932017-04-03T05:10:26.341+02:002017-04-03T05:10:26.341+02:00Love this! :)
FernsLove this! :)<br /><br />FernsFernshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08120135882551792775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-9850395371128033832016-06-17T10:01:47.309+02:002016-06-17T10:01:47.309+02:00Thank you for your comment.
Yes, I believe there ...Thank you for your comment. <br />Yes, I believe there is light at the end. At least we (my boys and I) are doing better now than we did when I wrote this. It just takes work. But it's SO worth it. <br />Hang in there, my anonymous friend. :)Sexybluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14568976240641331989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-81754874565790206512016-06-16T06:33:24.767+02:002016-06-16T06:33:24.767+02:00I can find myself in this!! it can be so complicat...I can find myself in this!! it can be so complicated and really, really painful!! strange thing is: we BOTH feel this way, and switch those emotions over and over and over again...<br />really exhausting!!<br />is it worth the struggle? what's the compomise? To close one's self and not be open and not let the love flow? I keep on hoping, there is light at the end of this tearing down, brutally , bloody struggle :p<br />it's nice to know , finally, a blog that write's about the pain conflicted with this kind of lifestyle!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-90368211300468897982016-05-20T17:45:23.151+02:002016-05-20T17:45:23.151+02:00Thank you for your comment, Ferns. :)
After getti...Thank you for your comment, Ferns. :)<br /><br />After getting out of that funk I was in, and looking more closely at what had happened, I came to much the same conclusions myself.<br /><br />But it's nice to get confirmed that those conclusions probably are the right ones. :)Sexybluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14568976240641331989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-74153231212391081262016-05-11T03:50:45.189+02:002016-05-11T03:50:45.189+02:00This hurt a bit to read because I see myself in it...This hurt a bit to read because I see myself in it, I too can be a bit of a steamroller :/.<br /><br />As I was reading it, I WAS thinking 'why on earth do you need him to justify something to you? No means no and his reasons are his'.<br /><br />Reading on, I understand your thought process, perhaps too well because I see myself in it. "But why?"<br /><br />My thoughts: If you hit something that triggers an emotional reaction, a hard 'no', then 'no means no' and that means it's done.<br /><br />If you've just discovered that it's a sore spot, right then and there is NOT the time to dig at it because when it's first uncovered, it's raw. Honour their feelings, put it away.<br /><br />Later at some point when the charge of it has dissipated, ask gently about it, NOT to 'question their conviction' or get them to rationalise or justify it to you or themselves (they don't owe you that and I can't see how that approach wouldn't make someone defensive), but in pursuit of understanding and intimacy, and PRESENT it that way to them. That you ask NOT because you want to challenge them, but because you want to understand them better.<br /><br />I get why you feel bad, I do think maybe you misjudged the situation, but that doesn't mean that 'all of everything forever' was wrong. At all.<br /><br />If I was you, I'd apologise, make it better, tread gently, explore it more as a path to understanding at some later point.<br /><br />I hope it resolves quickly and easily for you both.<br /><br />Ferns Fernshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08120135882551792775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-47090252852240224182015-12-05T16:24:13.072+01:002015-12-05T16:24:13.072+01:00Yeah, it really was. :) Thank you for commenting.Yeah, it really was. :) Thank you for commenting.Sexybluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14568976240641331989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-73054715897922309142015-11-28T03:11:22.765+01:002015-11-28T03:11:22.765+01:00Dang girl, that sounds awesome! *high fives*Dang girl, that sounds awesome! *high fives*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-29868738705996084012015-06-24T20:48:41.330+02:002015-06-24T20:48:41.330+02:00Thank you, Drew. :)
(And a tiny fangirl squeee. O...Thank you, Drew. :)<br /><br />(And a tiny fangirl squeee. One of Them just posted a comment on my blog! :P )Sexybluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14568976240641331989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-1608406142195470642015-04-19T05:30:41.887+02:002015-04-19T05:30:41.887+02:00Hi. I read your comment on Thumper's blog and ...Hi. I read your comment on Thumper's blog and found yours through extension. Thank you for your kind words about him and about me as well. Trust me, as a long time reader of Thumper before I landed in the middle of his real life world, I get the "weirdness" of caring for strangers and still sometimes laugh that he is just now in my actual day to day. After meeting Ferns, it feels that strange as well.<br /><br />But, all that to say very nice post about and keep caring about who you read and comment!<br /><br />Again, many thanks to you.<br /><br />All my best,<br /><br />DrewAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-51569102848472349972015-04-19T05:29:34.145+02:002015-04-19T05:29:34.145+02:00Hi. I read your comment on Thumper's blog and ...Hi. I read your comment on Thumper's blog and found yours through extension. Thank you for your kind words about him and about me as well. Trust me, as a long time reader of Thumper before I landed in the middle of his real life world, I get the "weirdness" of caring for strangers and still sometimes laugh that he is just now in my actual day to day. After meeting Ferns, it feels that strange as well.<br /><br />But, all that to say very nice post about and keep caring about who you read and comment!<br /><br />Again, many thanks to you.<br /><br />All my best,<br /><br />Drew Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-57929918265851619732014-01-31T08:24:05.124+01:002014-01-31T08:24:05.124+01:00Thanky SO much. I love your blog!
rohosubThanky SO much. I love your blog!<br /><br />rohosubAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5662912670944959364.post-2361265224406064942012-11-06T20:15:08.188+01:002012-11-06T20:15:08.188+01:00Wonderful!
Made me kind of envious... :blush:
roh...Wonderful!<br />Made me kind of envious... :blush:<br /><br />rohosubrohosubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04311256883538838808noreply@blogger.com