Pseudonymes

Here's a list of pseudonymes I've used throughout this blog:

People actively involved in my life, as of June 2023 (in alphabetical order): 

Novice: My girlfriend. We first started playing in late October and got together on December 3rd 2022. Untill november 2023, I had to use they/them pronouns for her here, because she wasn't out as a trans woman yet. Her real pronouns are she/her.

Saint: My my nesting partner. Cis man, he/him. We got together in November 2013, and are raising two kids together (one of them is biologically his). We lived with T for a few years, before T and I got divorced.

People I've had longer relationships with (in reverse chronological order):
Elle: A transwoman who was my girlfriend for just under 6 months in 2022/2023. Liberty is her girlfriend.

Student: A 21 year old, pansexual university student that I had a very uncomplicated, vanilla sexual relationship with, starting in April 2022, gradually declining during the fall of 2022.

Arthur: A comet who I played with a few times per per year since 2015. Mentally unwell. Triggered my submissive side. The relationship ended in 2022, because of my transition. 

Cord: A trans guy I dated for two months in the spring of 2022. 

Tight: A non-binary transfemme from outside of Oslo who was my sub from January to November 2012 (or May 2013, depending on your what you count). After that, they got together with Flower (yeah, small world), but they've since split up. We started talking again in January 2022 and are now great friends. Might play again at some point, might not.

T: My ex-husband. We got together in May 2005 and got married in the summer of 2012. Separated in 2019, divorced in 2020. He's a top, and can also be dominant, but is somewhat more casual about it than I am.

Dane: A fairly inexperienced sub from Denmark, whom I met had a relationship with from February to July 2017.

Giant: A tall guy from Oslo who I was with for a few months in 2016. Really intense, really hot, and over really quickly.

War: A nerd from Oslo, heavily into board games. Started flirting in 2011, was my vanilla lover in 2012/2013. We would meet up about once or twice per month, play board games and have sex. Also fucked once in 2022.

Corvus: A guy in Oslo, whom I played with for about a year in 2010/2011. Made his own steel chastity devices. In hindsight, I suspect he's trans (nonbinary maybe?). Have since lost touch.

Mondage: A guy in Trondheim whom I played with September 09 'til June 10. I ended the relationship when I moved to the other side of the country. Have since more or less lost touch.

X: The boyfriend I had before I met T. Dominant sadist, fetishist, but with a fair amount of anger management issues. The relationship lasted for just under a year, but it's probably scarred me (mentally/emotionally) for life.


Other people mentioned several times (alphabetically):
B: I got to know her through an online community, and she's now a great real life friend. After getting to know me, she realised she was a lesbian and into BDSM. (Though I'm not taking all the blame for that.) I've promised her that one day we will have sex, but that day still hasn't come. Me becoming more masc might be a problem...

Beauty: My ex-husband's ex-girlfriend. They dated approximatly 2014-2016. She's a single mom and lives in another part of the country.

Book: The wife of a guy who took nude photos of me in the forest once. Book and T and I had a threesome once. I've also fooled around with her husband (the photographer).

Catalyst: A friend of T from Trondheim. I'm more attracted to him than perhaps I ought to be. He's a natural dominant and I get somewhat of a "bad boy" vibe from him. Subbing for him is a fantasy, but I don't really want it realized.

Donald&Daisy: A kinky BDSM couple (since divorced), both switches. I played with Donald a few times and it's been really intense. There were plans for me to co-top Daisy along with her (then) dom, but it never worked out.

Foodie: A non-binary sub I played with a few times in Trondheim, starting in 2021. 

Liberty: Elle's girlfriend. A ciswoman.

Neighbour: Used to be T's on-again-off-again lover for a couple of years, but has since gotten herself a monogamous boyfriend now. Completely lost touch.

NN: A genderfluid amab person I had sex with a few times in 2022.

Swede: An inexperienced top/dom from Sweden, who I'm sort of mentoring. We started exploring and learning together in September 2016, but increasingly fell out of touch in spring/summer 2017. That sexual spark isn't there as much, but we're still good friends.

Rarely mentioned (alphabetically):
A: A woman I went to school with for a year in Trondheim, who turned out to be more unstable than I thought.

C: A woman I also met through an online community. Big boobs, slim body, long hair. Since lost touch.

DF: A very cute, young lesbian girl I met in Trondheim. Submissive. She's moved and we've lost touch.

DW: A woman T was playing with for a short while. Artist.

EG: A guy I met and played with once at our local BDSM club, who's been abroad for many years and now lives on the west side of Oslo. Kind of weird. Into tantra and stuff.

ET: A foreign student whom T and I shared for our 5th anniversary.

F: A man from the BDSM club in Oslo, who wanted me to help him quit smoking. Has since disappeared.

Flower: A woman T has played with occasionally, and who's stayed at our house a couple of times. She also dated Tight for a while (small world..).

HH: A foreign student whom T played with a bit. In her home country she works at a sex shop and she likes comics. Has since moved back home.

Jump: A friend of War, whom I tried to get involved with in the fall of 2013. Unfortunately, that didn't work out, as we were unable to communicate properly. Loves dancing swing.

Larpy: A switch I got to know in Oslo. He lived in England for a few years to study. We played a couple of times.

LOL: A young, cute, bisexual guy from Oslo. Studied music. Has specific aftercare needs that makes us incompatible.

M: A nonbinary afab person from Trondheim, who's since changed their name. Originally met through larp. Used to be in a relationship with a very well known Trondheim sadist, but they ended it many years ago.

Mouse: A submissive shoe fetishist and crossdresser. Unhappily married. (In hindsight: Trans egg?) From a town outside of Oslo.

Pet: A toy in Trondheim whom I played with in the fall of 2007. We are not a good match and only did a few sessions. Has since left the scene completely, gotten a vanilla wife etc. 

S: A dominant woman in Trondheim, we still talk occationally. Have several overlapping spheres of interest (kink, paganism, reenactment etc).  

Winnie: A guy in Oslo, very well known in the scene there. He's a submissive whom I've played with occasionally, but I don't "click" as well with him as I do with certain other subs.