Saturday, June 12, 2010

Dominant/sadist fantasies

A list of stuff I fantasize about doing to someone. Some might be better left in my mind, some I wouldn't mind being able to do in real life. I won't tell you which are which.

Face sitting, possibly combined with breath control. Primarily to show dominance and control.
Face sitting, as used to force someone to oral sex. Force someone to satisfy me. Preferably whilst he's been immobilized by ropes or something.
Sitting in a queening chair, preferably somewhere public, having someone pleasure me orally.
Tying a dildo or similar to a man's head, mouth (gag), hand, putting a strap-on around his waist etc, and fucking that. Not him.
Tying someone over a bench or similar, and taking them from behind with a strap-on.
Orgasm denial, restraint and control. Chastity. Having them beg and still tell them no.
Basically having a man as my sex toy. One I can use when I like, how I like.
Having a real spanking/whipping session, with proper equipment and locations. One that lasts quite a while, that pushes boundaries and that leaves bruises.
Forcing him to look me in the eyes, while I somehow hurt him 'till he cries.

Sunday, June 6, 2010

On the couch

T had been teasing my nipples and I was feeling a bit horny, so I figured I could masturbate with him watching. He kept on fondling my breasts (at my encouragement) and of course got horny himself. I lay on the couch and he stood above me, thrusting his dick into my mouth while I had a vibrator deep in my pussy. It was lovely! After a while, he focused on my breasts again and I got my bearings enough to be able to come. Then, with a towel underneath us, we fucked on the couch. I was on all fours, my head and arms resting on the back of the couch.I don't think we've ever done it like that one the sofa before. It was different, I liked it.

What I like the most is that it wasn't planned. It just happened spontaneously, because I happened to only wear a bath robe while watching TV. Our sex life seems to have gotten quite a boost lately.

In other news: ET came home with us last Sunday, and we fondled eachother a bit. It didn't get to sex though, she didn't want to. A day or two later, she announced that she'd gotten together with this other guy in our BDSM club. I knew they'd been flirting, but didn't know they were that serious. Of course that makes her off limits to T and I, but I'm still happy for her. Actual relationships has to go before random sexual encounters. We just met the happy couple on Friday, and they're so much in love they can't keep their hands off each other. I dream about the day, when that new-love feel has worn off a bit, when she (or both of them) end up in our bed once more. I'm allowed to dream, right? :P