Very short, as I'm about to go to bed. Tonight, T gave me a spanking. It's the first spanking I've received in years, and I was pleased at how well I handled it. We didn't try to push any boundaries, but it was painful enough. And good, too. There was no D/s involved, just the physical Top/bottom stuff, which worked out very well. I don't think D/s would have worked, for that I'm too much of a dominant (and so is he).
The spanking worked very well as a kind of foreplay before sex.
Oh yes, we had sex. First time in over 2,5 years. Turns out it's much like riding a bike, it's not something you forget. Whilst we've both grown and changed in the past few years, we still love each other and enjoy pleasing each other. And that's the most important thing.